[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/stejne-pozadavky-od-obou-rodicu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/stejne-pozadavky-od-obou-rodicu\/","headline":"Stejn\u00e9 po\u017eadavky od obou rodi\u010d\u016f","name":"Stejn\u00e9 po\u017eadavky od obou rodi\u010d\u016f","description":"V\u00fdchova d\u00edt\u011bte je celkem slo\u017eit\u00e1 z\u00e1le\u017eitost.D\u00e1 se v n\u00ed ud\u011blat mnoho dobr\u00e9ho, ale tak\u00e9 mnoho pokazit. Prvn\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my.","datePublished":"2025-07-21","dateModified":"2025-07-21","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7c144e1de0ecc43e7a8353c804f0c7ea63c9554336576e7048c4bdeaa59bbbbb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7c144e1de0ecc43e7a8353c804f0c7ea63c9554336576e7048c4bdeaa59bbbbb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"chliv.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287602_w2147_t1498150955.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287602_w2147_t1498150955.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.chliv.cz\/stejne-pozadavky-od-obou-rodicu\/","wordCount":415,"articleBody":"V\u00fdchova d\u00edt\u011bte je celkem slo\u017eit\u00e1 z\u00e1le\u017eitost.D\u00e1 se v n\u00ed ud\u011blat mnoho dobr\u00e9ho, ale tak\u00e9 mnoho pokazit. Prvn\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed u\u017e v p\u0159ed\u0161koln\u00edm v\u011bku, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b sna\u017e\u00ed zjistit, kde jsou hranice, za kter\u00e9 u\u017e se nesm\u00ed. A v tomto okam\u017eiku mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f d\u011bl\u00e1 NENAPRAVITELN\u00c9 CHYBY.o\u00a0\u00a0 Jestli\u017ee se rodi\u010d ob\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsnost\u00ed (nikoliv fyzick\u00fdm trest\u00e1n\u00edm) n\u011bco na hezk\u00e9m vztahu pokaz\u00ed, posouv\u00e1 pomysln\u00e9 hranice n\u011bkam do nezn\u00e1ma.o\u00a0\u00a0 Takov\u00e9 hranice se jen t\u011b\u017eko posouvaj\u00ed (by\u0165 jen o p\u00ed\u010f) zp\u011bt.Odborn\u00edci na d\u011btskou psychiku \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 zp\u016fsob v\u00fdchovy je hodn\u011b ovlivn\u011bn t\u00edm, jak jsme byli sami vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni. \u010casto na sv\u00e9 d\u011bti p\u016fsob\u00edme tak, jak aplikovali v\u00fdchovu na\u0161i rodi\u010de na n\u00e1s.\tNenapraviteln\u00e9 \u0161kodyNejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed chybou je ur\u010dit\u011b rozd\u00edlnost v n\u00e1zorech na v\u00fdchovu v rodin\u011b.A.\u00a0\u00a0 Je naprosto norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee babi\u010dky a d\u011bde\u010dkov\u00e9 povol\u00ed o trochu v\u00edce.B.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ale je naprosto nep\u0159\u00edpustn\u00e9, aby druh\u00fd rodi\u010d v\u011bdom\u011b d\u00edt\u011bti dovoloval to, co jeho partner zak\u00e1zal.Jestli\u017ee se tento \u201ehodn\u00fd\u201c rodi\u010d domn\u00edv\u00e1, \u017ee sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem z\u00edsk\u00e1 na svou stranu a ono ho bude m\u00edt rad\u011bji, je na omylu.Svou \u201ehodnou v\u00fdchovou\u201c dok\u00e1\u017ee jen to, \u017ee za p\u00e1r let u\u017e s takto rozporupln\u011b vychovan\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem nikdo nic nezm\u016f\u017ee. ALE ANI D\u00cdT\u011a NEBUDE \u0160\u0164ASTN\u011aJ\u0160\u00cd. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee v tu chv\u00edli, kdy m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bco zak\u00e1zan\u00e9ho. Pozd\u011bji v\u0161ak ur\u010dit\u011b ne.\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 V rodin\u011b, kde nevl\u00e1dne celkov\u00e1 soudr\u017enost, se za\u010dne c\u00edtit nejist\u011b a svou oporu bude hledat jinde.A pak nast\u00e1vaj\u00ed situace, kter\u00e9 jsou z na\u0161eho okol\u00ed dob\u0159e zn\u00e1m\u00e9. Ned\u016fsledn\u00fd rodi\u010d se pt\u00e1 psycholog\u016f i s\u00e1m sebe, CO UD\u011aLAL \u0160PATN\u011a. V\u017edy\u0165 p\u0159eci to jeho d\u00edt\u011b dostalo v\u0161e, na\u010d si vzpomn\u011blo. A touto v\u011btou si na sv\u016fj probl\u00e9m tak\u00e9 s\u00e1m odpov\u00ed. –\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Chceme p\u0159eci ze sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte vychovat zdrav\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd uzn\u00e1v\u00e1 mantinely.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 A ne rozmazlen\u00e9ho jedince, kter\u00fd nakonec z\u016fstane se svou nesnesitelnou povahou s\u00e1m.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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